Ok… maybe send a new message, something a little gentler. “I know I misunderstood what happened with snapchat, and you didn’t mean to exclude me. But lately I’ve been feeling things have been a little tense, and I just wanted to double-check.”
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(2/3) other when were at school, goofing off and being best friends. but I haven’t been to her house in 3 years, and I don’t know it’s that’s cause she doesn’t like me and just pretends or if she’s busy (cause she travels a lot and her parents do lots of events) but she’s going off to a boarding school and I’ll only be able to see her on weekends but I’m worried that since we haven’t been to each other’s houses in a long time, I might not see her even on the weekends and I and really worried and
(3/3) I’m still not sure if she likes me or not. and my other friend I met last year but we became really close really fast. but last night I asked her if she wanted to come over and she said she was too tired, then I saw her snapchat story later an it was her with Alyssa an I thought she lied to me and jus. ditched me so I texted her and said “you’re too tired to hang out with me but not Alyssa?” and he explained that the story was from yesterday and I felt bad and said sorry but I think she’s still mad at me and I’m wondering if I should text her and ask? and I don’t know what to do about Alyssa cause I love her too much to give up on being friends?
Ok. I’m just going to say first-off that friend groups of three are difficult. Very difficult. Almost impossible, to be honest. I’ve experienced them a few times and they never worked out. I’m not saying to bail on your friends, I’m just telling you what I’ve experienced. I mean, it’s worked for some people, but not for me.
As for Alyssa, it sounds like she’s just generally really busy. I don’t think she doesn’t like you anymore. You could say that you feel like the two of you have been distant, lately, if you want. COMMUNICATION IS THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IN ANY KIND OF RELATIONSHIP. TALK TO YOUR FRIENDS. As for her going to boarding school, if it’s a good friendship then it’ll survive long-distance. Trust me. I’m at college, and I see my closest friends only once ever couple of months, and we’re still close.
As for your other friend, clearly they didn’t intend anything malicious against you, and I don’t think they’re mad. But if you want to ask them, as long as you are nice about it, I think that’s totally fine.
The most important thing is TO TALK TO THEM, ok? I can’t express this enough. If you have any further questions please let me know, ok? <3
the faces made in death note are my favorite thing
I wanted to draw Tsukiyama who reads books to Kaneki
(who is still recovering after the fight with you-know-who), so here’s a quickie!
forget howl lets talk about the real Stealer of the Show, spicy mama Prince Justin. how about a little fire scarecrow indeed mmmm
i mentally wrote this post in the shower because i remembered him being a lot cuter but now i realize he looks like anthropomorphic banana pudding. well the lesson here is that we tried. prince justin tried and i think that’s something we can all relate to. sometimes you come out on top and sometimes you’re delicious custard
hello! i totally understand your nerves. i can try and do something…. but do you want to make it a bit more specific, maybe? certain characters or what specifically they were calming you down about, like is it school?
I was talking about why Chef Gordon Ramsay was so angry all the time, and explained that he originally wanted to be a professional soccer player but suffered a really bad knee injury and couldn’t play anymore, so he poured himself into cooking and culinary arts to help with his anger issues, but his abusive alcoholic father disapproved of his cooking and died before ever tasting any of it and I realized that Gordon Ramsay has the most anime backstory ever.
this is a lot to take in all at once